Mourning is not only a process of healing sorrows of bereavement, but also of various losses that have been passed down from the immemorial days of humankind. Human life experiences various pains and painful losses. Therefore, one should fully mourn the feelings and sufferings of sadness, such as helplessness, bewilderment, depression, anxiety, anger, sadness, and fear.
The study notes that the early loss of life results from the relationship of the first object, the primary parent, which affects the normal development and growth of a person. And the need and alternatives to be fully mourned in the development of an individual's life and present life are applied to pastoral counseling through psychoanalytic mourning and clinical practice.
A healthy mourning is to achieve mental and mental maturity from the pain of grief caused by loss to restore the true meaning of life and promote adaptation to daily life from the lost object. In addition, the real-life relationship not only of oneself of also the object will move forward in a healthy and intact manner.
The benefits of mourning are transformation internalization, creating a healthy object relationship, creating meaning for life, and being able to stand as a self-reliant and independent In addition, the process of mourning has an integrated perception of normal human life. and also mourning for deep experience through Christian spirituality is the driving force behind the loss.